How society creates traps for one’s growth?


Everyone has got some talent, few never recognizes it and some fail to follow even after recognizing.
Why is it so?
I’ll explain it with a small story.
This is a story about 2 friends Gopi and Karthik. Both of them graduated from a premier institute. Gopi and Karthik both were very much interested in cooking. Gopi was afraid to get into cooking thinking that he has studied so much that getting into cooking will not look great and his parents and relatives will feel bad. So he joined the BIG MNC company and went to foreign.
Whereas Karthik stayed back in his country worked for 3 years to save money to start a cooking business.
Due to the challenges in his startup he was not able to earn any in the span of 2 years.
Everyone was comparing Karthik with Gopi (see your friend has saved 5 million, having a great life but you, even after studying from such an Institute you are just doing the cooking stuff.)
Karthik felt low at times, when his parents also lost faith in him. Everyone started to consider him has a foolish burden.
But Karthik refused to accept the society’s judgment and followed his heart.

After 3 years he started to grow tremendously.
Karthik was not only way richer than Gopi, but WAS HAPPY TOO.

“Today is tough, tomorrow is much more difficult, the day after tomorrow is very beautiful, but most will die tomorrow evening.”
-      JACK MA

Friends not many get the opportunity to follow their dreams, but if you get don’t let it go for the sake of society.

At the end, it’s your happiness is at stake and not the society’s.

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