How one’s parents, teachers, and our surrounding supporters destroy the most important wings of confidence within a child.


This article is part 2 of my bullying Article.
It was Surprising to see my 10th classmates asking for an Apology for their bullying behavior after almost 13 Years.
But not a single Teacher realized their mistake of spoiling the child’s confidence. What I find now are young adults with low self esteem because of the small mindedness of my pathetic teachers who are literate when it comes to the subject and completely illiterate when it comes to knowledge.
A child is the greatest asset not only to the family, but also to the country.
But due to the exposure to parents who keep comparing with the neighbors, or with the teachers who keep comparing with the marks, Kill’s the child’s confidence, little by little with age.
What is more disheartening is to find this horrifying process still continuing. Stop blaming the child for her/his performance because even the teacher also holds an equal responsibility. Most of the parents display an unpleasant behavior before the kids, which makes the child more vulnerable and intakes the toxic behavior from the parents.  
The world of the child is very small and the major part is played by the parents, teachers and nowadays “THE MAID”
The maid understands the kid’s action better than the mother.
Having and bringing up the child is a great responsibly and not COMPULSORY
It’s completely perfect for not having a kid,
Than being defective by having a kid , just for the society and not taking the responsibility.
Every parent in India wants their child to be a Doctor or work in Big Company, or Earn hefty, Marrying it to the same cast . JUST FOR THE SAKE OF SHOW OFF!!!
PLEASE , A CHILD HAS A LIFE IT’S NOT A THING TO SHOW OFF.
If you do not have the capacity to allow the child to grow the way it wants and help him to differentiate between what is right and what is wrong.
Then its complete waste of time and life.
Because, everyone wants more wealth, so even the kids also want more wealth and the society is becoming more greedy and this has just one end which is called as destruction.

There is nothing wrong in wanting to be wealthy,
But the right process is, being wealthy is just a byproduct and doing what you like with right consciousness.
and wrong path is, able to doing any thing for being wealthy.

So live with confidence, be contended with what you cannot change, do the best for what you can change with right conscience.
Life is a game, it’s easy for the ones who know the rules!!
Don’t be fooled by your surrounding delusion.  
Having a child is a responsibility and not a requisite.

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