Why Sex and food are the top priority for many ?


Nature wants every being to survive, sustain and reproduce.

This is the reason that the happiness and satisfaction become very important when it comes to sexual pleasure and food. We can see how animals fight for food and sex. We are no different  when it comes to how our mind is designed. That's the reason hunger and breakups hurt deep.

Normal people fall in the trap of nature's design. That is, they get easily carried away by the opposite sex. Because more than you, the nature is more interested in reproduction because that is the only way to sustain living beings. But not all humans are insane, very few use their mind to know that irrespective of the sensation nothing remains constant. They understand the impermanent nature of worldly stuffs.

When someone who completely controlled by his or her sensation, goes mad for sex or food.. That is a person who has not much control on his or her sensations. The moment we are controlled by our feelings that is the moment we lose control of our life, we lose our opportunity of being born as a human and start living like an animal just flowing with the attachment of sensation.
We are tossed between the pleasurable feelings and unpleasurable feelings, leading a life filled with ignorance.

When I see people who just admire others for their looks or money, I only see an ignorant animal inside them. Who is being chained with their own attachment. This is the best eg. For the fools who loose the best for the worst.

One's own freedom from attachments is the greatest achievement one can achieve in one's life.


"It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battle " - Buddha



But someone who really wants to come out of these chains  are the one's who really break the rules.
Someone who can enjoy beyond body and mind. Because the real happiness comes from renouncing the dualities of the worldly outcomes.

The best way to break the rules of nature is by following the rules"

 Generosity, virtue, renunciation, transcendental wisdom, diligence, tolerance, truthfulness, determination, loving-kindness, equanimity.

 When someone says that you are old fashioned for following the above then just remind yourself the other is just a slave in his /her own body. 


Be Happy.

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