HAPPINESS


Every one of us wants to be happy. But how many of us are successful in achieving it. For some, it lasts for a little time, for some it never comes. This blog will show the way how one can be happy in all instances of life. How one can see great opportunities in every challenge which you face in life.
Happiness of one can be broadly questioned in 2 ways  
è What makes you happy?
è Why you have lost your happiness?
The first one is an optimistic question where you start analyzing what really makes you happy.  Unfortunately most of us don’t even know what actually makes us happy. To answer this question, you just go back ,what made you happy in t he past .This is mostly controlled by ones past experiences . it might be past relation ship ,with your dear ones, some thing  materialistic , position, power ,looks etc..

There is a old saying which goes as follows: “AT TIMES NOT GETTING WHAT YOU WANT IS A WONDERFUL STROKE OF LUCK”
Happiness is most of the times is vague , unpredictable, non quantifying. You like something , you don’t get it , after some time you get some thing better. Then you start feeling how lucky you are. 
How to understand happiness ? How to come and stay in reality  ? How to win stuatoins ? is what this blog deals with and will answer.
This blog will help,  to understand yourself better, helps you to love yourself, destroy your regrets and to become a successful person.
Now lets deal with the second question.
“Why you have lost your happiness?”
In this case we deal with the present pain or feelings?
Which you are facing right now.

For some reason or another we are not happy right now .every one can answer this question to the point. This is something which is close to reality. Where most of us know exactly what we want but we feel powerless as we are not able to makei t happen , (or)striving  hard to make it happen , otherwise exactly don’t know what has to be done , or some what in a helpless situation.

Overall these two questions deals with,  how to accept your past, understand the present and make your future better. For this you have to understand your own  mind and its actions

to be cont....

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