SECRETS OF STAYING CALM IN A STORM :)

 

                SECRETS OF STAYING CALM IN A STORM –





Every being has some kind of sufferings, irrespective of their position or wealth they possess .. who ever you may be.

The level of difficulties depends on how we are handling it.

Sometimes we are angry, sometimes irritated or sad whatever the feeling is you can come out, if you follow this trick.

We can broadly classify out difficulties in two ways

è         Caused by other people (The way we are treated, getting cheated by others,    others rude behavior towards us or our loved ones…)

è        Caused by situations (Health problems, falling of stocks, natural calamities )

These are the 2 ways we face difficulties in life, now let’s talk about the first case where people are causing the trouble –

We are living in more materialistic world , we have to understand this.

People are not treated based on their inside qualities but outside qualities .

Cloths/appearance –

 How many times you have been looked down or up for the way you are dressed?

How many times you have looked down or up on others based on their clothes ?

We are extremely judgmental when it comes to outside looks.

When we see a fat person we come to conclusion that they are lazy.

When we see a dirty person we come to the conclusion that he is a failure.

How many times you have shamed a women based on her colour or clothes or appearance ?

It’s a very easy to judge others, what we forget is how dangerous it is to our self.  

Let me take a instance to explain further –

For eg- you look down someone who is wearing old or dirty clothes, there might come a situation in your life that you are not doing well and you are forced to wear old or dirty clothes that moment you mind will be looking down on yourself that’s the most painful moment , this gives a intense pain .

Judgments are facts to your mind so it doesn’t differentiate between you and others, you will be made to undergo the same pain what you gave to others by your own mind.

Almost 2 million cosmetic surgeries are performed world wide, just because these people feel that the way they look is not enough for the world and for themselves. they under go the pain of surgeries.

Most of us forget that the we get more old day after day and the secret of being beautiful is to embrace the old rather than struggling to appear young. How to embrace the old and look beautiful ? (keep reading )

When you break these judgments your mind is released from these facts and you start feeling light, when you start evaluating others from what they are inside you will start evaluating yourself also from inside, this will help you to grow from inside which will improve your health and quality of your life.

 

How to Break JUDGMENTS ?

 

Will  be cont… 


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