IT’S COMPLETELY FINE TO BE WEIRD, AMONG THE FOOLS !


Every one of us struggle with the masses to fit into so called NORMAL.
Get degree; Get married; Buy House; Have kids; Go to a job;
Slog and get retired.

We hardly get any time to think about our likes, ambitions, rights, passion, we don’t even have time to think about ourselves.
But most of us consider our self to be a failure.
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When we are not able to get a degree or get into a relationship or own a house or get a job or have kids.
RIGHT ?
Because, the society keeps putting pressure on us.
We are pushed into an isolation with a mental distress.
What the society lacks is the understanding that everyone is unique and no one can be compared with another. But we cannot change the overall society.
But what we can handle is not falling for their words and trying to align with them.
At points in life we are afraid to express our feelings, sexual orientation, our view about our life, our mental illness.
Even the most common things which everyone faces are also put into TABOO
Eg: talking about periods or abortions or sex etc..
When the day is Hot we cannot cover the sun, but we can always take an umbrella.
Similarly, we cannot change the complete society, but we can always protect our self from the surroundings.
So always make sure not to waste your life and kill your dreams, just to align with the society.
Society is a mass without common sense,
They laugh when you fall and clap when you rise.
Be proud of yourself. Follow your heart.
Be like a lotus plant, in spite being in water, its whole life makes sure not a single drop stand on it.
All the best.

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