What is the most important factor required in a relationship to grow ?


Here I’m talking about in general about relationships Eg. Between friends, partners, siblings etc..
The most important component that is required for building a deep relationship is FAITH, and make sure it’s not trust.
Most of us interchange these 2 words,
One doesn’t need any evidence or experience to have faith, but trust is built over time with experience and logic.
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So now let’s concentrate on faith and its role in a relationship.
Every one of us knows about Thomas Edison.
Edison was a poor student. When a school master called Edison “addle” his furious mother took him out of school and proceeded to teach him at home.
Edison said many years later, “My mother was the making of me. She was so true, so sure of me, and I felt I had someone to live for, someone I must not disappoint.”
What made Edison to achieve is his mother’s faith on her child.
Faith has the ability to give someone an enormous energy or hope to take an extra step in the times of adversities. Faith is like the water to the seed. To build a strong trust one has to have the ability to have strong faith in one’s heart. Faith is like your vision and wisdom is like your legs to travel the path of life.
At the same time, having a blind faith without common sense may drop you in the lowest levels of your life. Faith doesn’t require experience but always requires wisdom.
So when you want your loved ones to achieve something or you want to achieve something always make sure there exists the factor called faith upon each other and also upon yourself.
If you lack faith on yourself it becomes tough for someone to generate faith on you.
If you find someone who has more faith on you than you have on yourself make sure that you never betray that relationship till you are alive , because that's the most precious gift that one can get from any living thing in this universe.
If you are the person who can give such a faith to someone then you are the most generous person in this universe for giving such a great gift.

BE Happy :) 

Source:https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/thomas-edisons-mom-lied-about-a-letter-expelling-her-son-from-school/

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