FAILURES



Who is not afraid of failures?? Everyone hates to fail? In spite, having numerous positive effects in our life because of them.
Failures eliminate all actors and fake people from our life. It shows life in its true color. All we need is the strength within to see the reality.
Failures teach us  
 What not to do?
 Whom we should not trust?
 Why to maintain patience?  
How to be strong?
Who truly cares for you?
Nothing is permanent  
Time has the capacity to heal any wound.
One who waits in the dark till the dawn, get to see the sun.

But how many of us have the strength to overcome our difficulties and failures ??
Most of us are broken beyond the ability to cure. The feeling that we have been cheated makes our heart heavy our mind gloomy, and our body weak. We lose hope and let the wave of failures to wash us. Because, everyone is made out of feelings, perceptions and emotions.
When our feelings are broken;
Perceptions are proved wrong;
And
Emotions lose value;
We are lost in our self in this body.

We just want to escape the present and we feel disgusted.
The most painful feeling.
Some knock the door of drugs;
Some knock the door of sex;
Some knock the door of music
And
Some knock the door of death.
Because all we want is to forget our past and escape our present.
The warrior who stands in the reality, with hope as his weapon and tolerance as his armor is the one who steps down his failures to see his success.
Don’t lose hope till you have a life, being alive is in itself a great gift.
Tolerance is an invulnerable armor, more strong your armor better you are protected from surrounding stupidity. Now it may not be your time, but trust me your time will also arrive for sure because change is the only thing which is constant.
Treat failures like boulder either you can put it on yourself and fall or put the boulder down and climb up on them to see further. Because your life is in your hands and take the complete responsibility.
YOU ARE THE KING OF YOUR LIFE !! DON’T LET OTHERS TO SPOIL IT. BECAUSE, YOU HAVE ONLY ONE LIFE.
JUST ROCK IT !!

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