Falling in LOVE



Falling in Love is a beautiful feeling!! Every one of us would have encountered this feeling with someone at some point of time.

Isn’t it a very beautiful with, lots of happiness, hope, faith and bliss…

What really matters is the faith and love we have on the other person. Something to be noted here is the amount of energy, time, space in our heart and mind we have given to the other person.
So it’s a great effort we put to make our relation to work out.

HOW MANY OF US HAVE THAT FIRST LOVE FEEL WITH OUR OWN SELF!!

Forget about love, how many of us hate our own self???
We are not happy with our looks, status, intelligence, appearance, weight, color, etc…
Let’s get in to some factual data

China had high suicide rates earlier, but now India was leading. “According to the WHO report released in 2014, 2.35 lakh committed suicide in India”.

These alarming numbers are just the tip of the ice berg. The base cause is lack of love and interest that we have on our self. Lack of satisfaction and gratitude leads to the development of greed and hatred. Instead of diverting our energy to our growth we use it to our own destruction.
How to fall in love with one self?
We usually fall in love with someone who does what we like or with someone who is in the position what we wanted to be in. Right?
Don’t you think the same thing applies for us too
When we start doing what we like, we start to enjoy our time;
When we start to enjoy our time, we start valuing our life;
With the above process we tend to fall in love with our self J
How many of us really allocate time for oneself?
We spend our time for job, family, friends, household work etc..
How many allocate sometime for yourself regularly ??
For all the questions that arises in our mind, the answers leys within us .
We neither have time nor the patience to hear that
We can never achieve something new by repeating our old habits, following and generating productive actions is very important.
i.e change is indispensable .
Before we decide to change we should accept our present as it is.
To accept something we have to understand it.
How to understand our present i.e our present condition of our mind and body as one influences the other, eg when your body is in pain your mind is agitated and when your confused your body is tiered.
So understanding our mind and body and satisfying their needs is important.
Let’s see n my next article the way to satisfy the needs of mind and matter (body) relationship.

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